Those with overweight and/or eating disorders have poor contact with their
feelings of physical hunger and satisfaction. This causes them to be more
influenced by the environment, what they see and hear and what other
people say or show. External influences make an attractive smorgasbord
irresistible. Since they don't have an effective satisfaction feeling
which says stop, an abundance of food on a buffet becomes very difficult
to manage. There is a risk that they will eat far too much and then feel
desperate about everything they have taken in.
Those with no eating disorder have a functioning feeling of satisfaction.
When they have eaten sufficiently they can feel it. Buffet services are
therefore no problem for them, as they stop eating when satisfied,
regardless of how much food there is put on the table. This satisfaction
feeling unfortunately doesn't function with those who have eating
disorders. They continue until the food is finished or until they feel so
sick that the can't eat anything more. They don't eat according to their
bodily needs.
In order to recover from eating disorders and/or overweight it is
necessary to make contact with physical hunger and satisfaction feelings
and use them. It is also necessary to understand feelings and needs in
order to decide on sensible and wise ways of acting on them. It is easier
to do this if food is not so easy to access. When you read a menu and
choose what to eat, it is easier to be wise because the food is not there
in front of your eyes right away. It is by all means easier for a person
with an eating disorder to manage his or her life if you arrange it in a
way so that instant gratification is not so easy to achieve. It is not
only buffet services and restaurants you should stay away from, but also
to avoid going past sweet shops and kiosks, and keeping junk foods at
home. This is no stranger than a former alcoholic not keeping alcohol at
home in order to avoid temptation.
There are two reasons that people with eating disorders have problem with
buffet services: On the one hand, they have poor contact with the body's
true signals of hunger and satisfaction. On the other hand, they are more
governed by impulses from their surroundings. Experiments have been made
in which normal and overweight people have been told that if they are
hungry they can take sandwiches. It was found that those with overweight
took, by preference, the sandwiches they could see, not so often the ones
in a closed food cupboard. Those without eating disorders chose to eat
solely on a basis of hunger and the length of time since they last ate.
The aim for those with overweight and/or eating disorders is learning to
recognize real hunger and satisfaction so that they can achieve the same
internal control of eating as healthy people have. They also have to learn
to recognize different feelings that they mistake for hunger or need to
eat. Before they have progressed to this extent, it is best to avoid going
to a buffet service. Those with normal hunger are also tempted by good
food, but when they have eaten to the point of satisfaction, the food
loses its attractiveness.