I feel like I am not able to deal with responsibility, any kind. I am often not dependable. Also I often mess up my work. How can I deal with this?
Answer:
It takes time to grow up and become responsible. You have to work hard with yourself. Some people never manage to get there.
Getting into contact with your feelings
The firsts, and most important, step, is to get into contact with your uncomfortable feelings. Only by knowing them, can you learn to handle them responsibly, and get rid of tendencies to act without responsibility.
The responsible and irresponsible parts of you
Learn to recognize the parts of you who wants to act responsibly and irresponsibly.
Working on your way of life
By working on solving your problems in life, you can get happier and more satisfied.
Learn to solve problems
Once you understand your feelings, this article teaches how to use your knowledge to find better solutions.
Changing yourself
Being responsible involves changing yourself. This article teaches how to do this.
Productive thinking
To act responsibly, you have to learn to think in responsible ways, and reject irresponsible ideas.
Changing your way of life step by step
You cannot become a new human overnight. Take one step at a time. Make a plan for how to change yourself.