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happy Re: My boyfriend says he cannot commit himself , ****** , 20 Feb 2006 19:07
reply Re: My boyfriend says he cannot commit himself , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 17 Feb 2006 18:32
question My boyfriend says he cannot commit himself , ****** , 17 Feb 2006 18:14
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My boyfriend says he cannot commit himself
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Date: Fri, 17 Feb 2006 18:14:01 +0100
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I am having a hard time dealing with a recent breakup between my ex boyfriend and myself. After years of him persuing me, I finally decide to go all or nothing in a relationship with him. I moved to another country to be with him(he came to get me), and did everything right in the relationship. He tells me after one month of being together he cannot commit nor does he know why he is feeling this way. I ask him why, or what happend or what is it about me that made him decide this. His answers are always, I dont know, it was not you, it is me.
I am feeling so rejected,sad,not good enough, etc...
It's been 2 months since I left his home, and I cannot seem to heal. What should I do? I try to move on, but I feel I should wait to see if he "misses" me.
Please help.
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Re: My boyfriend says he cannot commit himself (Reply to: 62391 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Fri, 17 Feb 2006 18:32:38 +0100
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Men need a break now and then in a relationship to feel OK. If they are together with their partner all the time, they start feeling the way your ex-boyfriend felt.

More about men who need a break now and then.
About men who will not commit themselves.



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Re: My boyfriend says he cannot commit himself (Reply to: 62400 from ****** )
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Date: Mon, 20 Feb 2006 19:07:33 +0100
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Letter from a reader: Maybe, he was getting scared of commitment, don't worry though hun, just get over it! Get out there and find someone better.


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