Want to be sexually pleased but can not.

I have been sexually active here now for 6 years now. I am 23 and married for a year and a half. I have been with one guy fully and "fooled around" with only one other. When making love with my husband I can not climax, I think I do but it seems as though I do not finish all the way. I also have a problem with drying up. Even with foreplay I still dry up. We have tried lubricants, such as KY gel, and condoms but these seem to hurt more than help. I am allergic to latex so we can not use those types of condoms, we use lamb but at times these tend to hurt also. I want to enjoy intercourse and for the most part I do.
Almost a year ago I had an ovarian cyst removed by c-section method. This incision point has also given us problems. Another problem I have found is that I can switch from being turned on to nothing within a matter of seconds. I have suffered for depression when I was 10-16 years of age. I also was molested, by a family member, when I was around the same age as the depression. Would this have any affect on my sex life now? I have never actually masterbated or even touched myself in that mannor before. I have talked to my husband and he knows about all of this but I would like some help from some one else. Should I go see my doctor or a sex therapist? Please Help me.

To see a sex therapist is a very good idea.

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