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reply ** Re: Jealous husband cause trouble at home , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 03 Mar 2007 23:01
question Jealous husband cause trouble at home , ****** , 03 Mar 2007 01:44
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Jealous husband cause trouble at home
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Date: Sat, 3 Mar 2007 01:44:28 +0100
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i have been with my husband for 6 years, been married for two. we now have 2 kids, 3 years and 11 months. when we first got together we were inseperable, but now i am no longer that 15 year old he met 6 years ago and i have responsibilities to care for. he stills tells me everyday that he loves me and he never has any problems spending time with me. he supports me and the kids well. we never go without anything. im not really sure when this started but i do know it is getting out of hand. every day i hear about how he thiks i am trying to cheat on him. if we go to the store and i carry a conversation on with someone like the ashier he calls them my boyfreind/girlfreind. im not allowed to work. im not allowed to see my old freinds anymore. hes even restricted me from chatting on aol. i am confined into this small apartment all day with my two kids with no connection to the outside world. my days onsist of catering after him and the kids. i had just got my GED a couple months ago and i wanted to go back to school. and he wouldnt let me cuz he said i would find someone there to cheat on him with. when i told him i was willing to take courses online at home on the computer he then said i just wanted to find someone better than him. i have never cheated on my husband and i never would. i love my husband and would do anything for him but this cageing me up and accusing me of cheating everytime i make a move is driving me insane. theres just so much cleaning i an do in this house before there is nothing left for me to do. when the kids are taking thier naps i find myself doing nothing but staring at the walls. he has freinds he talks to everyday and brings them over a lot. he tells his freinds that i cheat on him and treat him like crap and all i do all day is try to make him happy. he has turned all of his freind against me they wont even talk to me. i dont know what to do, and leaveing him is not an option. the reason i think he does it, i dont know if this helps any, is when he was little his parents got divorced cause his dad cheated on his mama. and currently his brother is chaeting on his wife and the other way around she is cheating on him. his whole family has a lot unloyal marriages. and no matter hwat i say or do i cannot get him to reaize that not everyone is like them. so any advice that would help me get over this so i can go back to haveing a life would be great. and thank you for your time.
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** Re: Jealous husband cause trouble at home (Reply to: 95121 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Sat, 3 Mar 2007 23:01:21 +0100
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Your husband is ill and needs treatment. Encourage him to see a psychotherapist or go together to a family counsellor. A psychiatrist is another solution.

Read more about the treatment of jealousy.




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