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reply ** Re: Can't stop thinking of my ex abandoning me , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 18 Dec 2006 22:48
question Can't stop thinking of my ex abandoning me , ****** , 18 Dec 2006 05:28
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Can't stop thinking of my ex abandoning me
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Date: Mon, 18 Dec 2006 05:28:28 +0100
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I was with a guy for two years... we were very sexually involved, he fulfilled all of my expectations in that area. He was also everything I could ask for in a man. He was easy to talk to and knew all of my inner most secrets. I loved him with all of my heart. We knew each other inside and out. In March of 2006, he and I walked into his house and found his mother dead. After that, our relationship got even stronger. Then he decided to move because he is in college and needed to stay with relatives until he finished school. After he moved ( he was an hour and a half away from me), everything changed. The relatives he lived with did not approve of the relationship and he eventually ended it. I was devastated. It has been three months and I still can't sleep at night and can't eat.... I don't know what to do. I am dating another guy, but everytime I am with him, I think of my ex. I can't help it. I like this new guy, but he isn't as easy to talk to, he does nothing for me sexually... I mean, we have been intimate, but it isn't anywhere close to what I want.... and all I can think about is perhaps my ex was "the one" and I have lost him for good. What do I do? How can I get my ex off of my mind? And what about the new guy? Is it going to turn out bad because I can't stop thinking of my ex... plus, he isn't sexually attractive to me? How do I deal with the loss of my ex and move on with my life? And can I have a relationship with someone who I can't even bare to look at when he is nude?
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** Re: Can't stop thinking of my ex abandoning me (Reply to: 89987 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Mon, 18 Dec 2006 22:48:57 +0100
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It is too early with a new relationship. You need to grieve your loss before you can engage in a new boyfriend and fall in love again.

Read more about grief.




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