One of my cousin sister was once very dpressed for something and i tried to help her come out of this feeling. but doing so i was sexually attracted towards her and so was she. she is about 31 and 7 years older to me. she has not been married as yet.she works and lives all alone in a place far away frm er family and only meets them in a 3-4 months. i thought she was feeling depressed because she was living all alone.
we ofte had oral sex whenever we could get the opportunity. we tried to stop this but could not resist ourselves frm doing so.one day she told me that a boy came into her life and she was attracted towards her. but he tried to use her to satisfy himself sexually. this was a major setback for her. knwing this i really felt sorry for her and suddenly i started feeling that the feeling of lust has changed into love. now for the past one month or so we are having a feeling of love towards each other. we want to live together but it is not possible coz our families(who are unaware of this relationship)would never allow this to hapen. i am a student and she is a working lady. it has become difficult for us as we miss each other very much.
moreover she is still very depressed and thinks that she has done wrong by indulding with such an activity with me. she often says that she wants to die. she has become very passimistic. i want to see her happy always and tried to make her feel positive.
i would like you to suggest how we can resist this feeling this feelling of love and secondly how she can become a positive thinking lady.
If you lived in Sweden, like I do, you would live together and be happy. Everybody would have to accept that you had chosen each other. Talk to a wise person in your country, as I do not know what country you live in and the cultural setting in your country.
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