Yes, I have a specific question: One of my good friends for 3 years are thinking seriously about hooking up. We have always tlaked about each other, laughed together, but now things are kind of complicated becuase i dont want to loose him as my friend, but i really really want to be wit him. And im not talking about sexually. I just mean to hook up with him. I'm afraid that if we go out and then we break up then things wont be the same anymore. We are so compfortable around each other that we could just say anything.I just dont kow what to do. I love him as friend and the feeling is mutual, i just dont want to get hurt and i dont want him to get hurt either. So how do i keep my good friend., but make him my sexy boyfriend.