Wondering if you could give me some suggestions. I am a 19 year old male that not only has a lack of sexual interest but a fear of them. I can get close to girls (i.e. Hug etc…) and be fine but as soon as it takes either a flirtatious or sexual tenor I feel terrified and need to get out of the situation. I only ever get an erection or ejaculate during wet dreams (Wich has only happened a few times), which tend to be more like nightmares for me. I have no issues with sex nor do I find it disgusting or have any self-esteem issues. I can read about sexual intimacy it in romance novels etc.. but am unable to look at any form of pornography without feeling sick.