My daughter lives with an extremely over controlling husband. She is a pleaser and continually allows him to controll her in order to keep peace. She tells me that she is happy but I see otherwise. I have noticed that she is loosing her identity and becoming a mirror image of him. The things she loved and enjoyed in life no longer exist now. It is as if the girl I raised has dissapeared. In the beginning I was an overcontrolling parent. I have since learned healthier behavior. Now I don't know how to help undo the weak sense of self I gave my daughter. Is there anything I can do to help her. This is breaking my heart!