my boyfriend of a year hangs out with guys that smoke weed. i personally dont like being around that kind of an atmosphere and it makes me very upset. i become 'bitchy' and tend to become very bossy to all of my boyfriend's friends when they are around. i try not to but i hate being around people that are doing nothing with their lives (aka no job no school nothing). i go home crying nearly every day because i feel like my boyfriend is ruining his life. hes young and feels that its just a stage where he likes to party. i understand this but i still cant help but be upset. im always crying and i dont act like the same person anymore. the problem is im in love with my boyfriend and i dont have many friends except the ones that he has introduced me too. im not sure what to do. we are in a serious relationship and i have no intentions on leaving him. any advice?