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reply Re: I'm in love with a marry man , ****** , 02 Oct 2005 02:12
reply Re: I'm in love with a marry man , ****** , 20 Sep 2005 22:58
reply Re: I'm in love with a married man , ****** , 15 Sep 2005 15:14
reply Re: I'm in love with a married man , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 10 Sep 2005 16:48
sad I'm in love with a marry man , ****** , 09 Sep 2005 22:53
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I'm in love with a marry man
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Date: Fri, 9 Sep 2005 22:53:50 +0200
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My situation is difficult, I'm in love with this wonderful man that completes me in every way but there is a problem. He is married but i love him. I know is wife, a wonderful and nice person also he has a beautiful daughter. He tells me he loves me so much we are coming from very different cultures he got in an arrange marriage. His wife is wonderful but in a way i have so much more experience with man than she does. The point is we where not looking for each other and one thing let to another. We see each other everyday we spend weekends together and i love everything about him. He makes me feel so special. The problem is i feel so guilty we have tried to break things up. I'm so much younger than him but i feel either I’m taking advantage of him or he is of me. He can't get divorce is culture is very difficult the fact is that he doesn't want another man racing his daughter. I don't know what to do....Should I stay with him and give up my dream of been marry one day and having the recognition as a wife or should i just go and move on loving him?
I don’t know anyone with this situation and I’m afraid of asking. Most people see me as the bad person the other women that wants to break a perfect marriage and want to steal a husband. But I’m not like that I have put up with everything. Seen him with her and keeping everything inside. I WILL NEVER DO NATHING TO HURT HIM. I have been willing to hide change modify my self for him. I’m only 19 but people say I don’t anything about real love. He is 10 years older. I want to be with him the rest of my life I don’t see myself with anyone else. What to do. I’m in the point I’m afraid to do anything wrong what if he leaves me. I have never cheated and I will never like to be in that situation. I’m a very nice person put guilty of loving someone else husband.

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Re: I'm in love with a married man (Reply to: 52015 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Sat, 10 Sep 2005 16:48:59 +0200
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What eventually happens in situations like this, is that the passion gets over, the man stays with his wife and finds another victim and the young woman wakes up. But before that there are so much feelings. I hope you will find a husband of your own in the future.



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Re: I'm in love with a married man (Reply to: 52049 from ****** )
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Date: Thu, 15 Sep 2005 15:14:35 +0200
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im in love with a marreid man. the only thing is that i hate his wife. well not hate dislike ifeel guilty sometimes also. im marreid with three children of my own. its hard we see each other everyday and weekend. i want him but i think he is afraid of change. we both were married right out of high school never reallty got the chance to explore other relationships he is everything good and bad i want in a man. your young expereiance life to it's fulliest don't get caught up in something that want go anywhere but hotels and heartaches.
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Re: I'm in love with a marry man (Reply to: 52015 from ****** )
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Date: Tue, 20 Sep 2005 22:58:43 +0200
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I truly understand what you are going through, I have been there myself. My advice to you is to leave him and find your own way. I now how difficult your situation is, I thought I could never live without my married guy, I spend 7 years loving someone else's husband just to end up alone. They often never leave there wife, you have to be strong and make this decision for you. Understand that he is enjoying the best of both worlds, he is fortunate to have someone who is willing to change there life for him. You are young, and believe me love will come again. I now it's hard to conceive, because it seems that you really do love this man, but it will. Remember to love yourself first, and acknowledge that you deserve to have a man of your own.

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Re: I'm in love with a marry man (Reply to: 52015 from ****** )
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Date: Sun, 2 Oct 2005 02:12:54 +0200
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Unfortunaly, I don't have a solution to your problem. The reason is I'm in the same situation. The only differences are that I'm 37 and he is 57. His children are grown and I have a teenager. I ask myself the same question. We've discussed breaking up before and all the reasons why it's wrong, but he says he loves me and has never had a relationship like this before. He makes me feel very special and spends a great deal of time with me even though he is married. When you find the answer, please share.

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