I have been going out with my girl friend for about 2 years and have been living with her for about a year now. She is working and I am a master student. We a both 24 and have both came from china but I have been livinig in UK for 7 years now while she has been here for about 5 years. We had great sex life in the very first few months. She will initial sex and give me oral sex by the time. But as the passion fade away, we kept having less and less sex and that I become the only one who initiate it. When we do it I could see that she do enjoyed it, so I believe it 's something psychological.
She is often tired after work and refuse to have sex on a week day and sometimes even on weekends. Recent months we a having sex only once every few weeks and it is mostly because of my frequent requests. It often leads to confrontation between us.
I have tried to sit down and talk about this problem with her, but she said there 's no point to talk about it as she simpliy doesn t like sex, just like people doesn t like some kind of music and she just seldom have any sort of sexual desire. She sort of think it s dirty, as she doesn t like sticky feeling in general. I am very frustrated and I wanna have sex at least for once or twice a week if time s avaliable. we love each other but I believe a normal couple should like to have sex together and feel loved by each other through sex. Please tell me what I can do except asking her to see a Dr.
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16 Jul 2005 12:32
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