Girlfriends problem

Hello, i was wondering if you could help me, ive been dating my girlfriend for a few years, and she has been binge eating and vommiting, sometimes vomiting without the binge.She has been doing this for almost 3 and a half years now, and i have known about it for a year. Ive tried to help her, and sometimes she does realy well for a day or 2, but soon slips back into throwing up about 4 times a day.She has seen a specialist, and they seggest that she goes to a clinic, but she wont.Ive tried everything, from being supportive to even trying the tough love approach, but none of seems to work as she believes that she looks better thin.she is tiny, and has some of the side affects you mention, such as weight loss, lack of menstrual cycle, hair loss, and body hair. I am starting to lose faith that she will ever get better, and am starting to mistrust her. Lately al ivewanted to do is end our relationship due to her problem, as all it does is cause arguements between us. Any help you could give me would be really appreciated.
Many thanks

Your girlfriend will not improve unless she goes to that clinic and works very hard to get rid of her eating disorder.

See our informational pages about eating disorders.