Sexual Problems...

Hi there :
this is the first time that I talk to anyone about this but I have many sexual problems....
First of all I am a 19 years old guy and I'm homosexual....and I consider that as a problem because I don't like the fact that I'm that for many reasons and I'm only attracted to men as a sexual thing....but I like girls and I want to fall in love with a girl and marry her someday...
anyway...I don't know why I'm like this and maybe cause I'm too afraid of being with a girl...because of my other sexual problems!
cause I "come too quickly" and my penis is bended like a banana and uncut and to tell u the truth I'm ashamed of that and I don't like it that way!
I don't know what to do but I do know that I want to get rid of the homosexuality and fall in a love with a girl and not be afraid of neither showing her my body nor making love with her....
and I want to make her and me satisfied!!
please help me....this is so confusing...

I have had many homosexual patients. To my surprise, two of them turned out to be heterosexual after therapy. I do not know if psychotherapy would work for you, but you can try. Even if it does not change your sexual direction, it will be useful for you.

It is common that young men worry about their penises. But in reality, the shape of the penis very seldom matters. If somebody loves a person, they will love that person's whole body, even if it is not perfect.

Coming too quickly can be cured with medicine and various techniques. A psychiatrist will know about drugs; a sexologist or a sex therapist about other ways of handling this.