i never want to have sex with my boyfriend and i feel it's wrong of me not to fulfill his needs. i feel i should do it anyway. sometimes i do and it's so uncomfortable. he never makes me do it,but i can't help but feel that i'm being a bad girlfriend by not doing it. should i do it anyway? whose needs should be met in this situation, his or mine? sometimes i don't want to even see him because i don't want to be put in this situation. he wants to every night and would be more than happy to do it more than once. sometimes i won't want to for weeks at a time i don't even want to do simple sexual things either that are't intercourse. my question really is who's the right one and whose needs shsould be met? thank you for our time.
Is there anything you and your boyfriend can do to make sex enjoyable for you? If so, your problems may just be a lack of technique.
If not, maybe it is better for him to find another girlfriend that shares his interest in sex. The present relation will make both of you unhappy.
It may, however, be difficult for you to find another boyfriend if you do not enjoy sex. Would you be happier living without a boyfriend?