Cannot get her off!

I have been in a relationship for a while with a woman. We have been intimate perhaps over 200 times. Although she gets very turned on, and desires me, she has never has an orgasm with me. Although she has said achieving orgasm takes work with her, she has achieved orgasm with other people; just not me. She says she gets “close” many times with me, and she feels that’s good enough. However, I do not think “close” is good enough; I should be able to satisfy her like a man. This is killing me and it is affecting me. In fact, I try like hell to withhold my own orgasm with her, which I succeed to do more than 50% of the time.

Ensure that she gets her orgasm before intercourse. Many women do not get an orgasm during intercourse. It is too rapid and does not stimulate the clitoris in the right way. Read this more detailed explanation.