I am 18 years old and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me.He has cried to me because he still loves me so much. I have grown dark inside. I feel so hurt and confused. When were together we still hug,kiss,flirt,cuddle. I just dont know how to pull myself out of this hell. I have become lazy, i cry everyday for him. I have hit rock bottom. I feel very alone and betrayed. Please give me some advice. Im so scared about these feeling i hold inside.
Grief needs to take its time. Crying and feeling bad has to be accepted. Do not try to restrain yourself, allow the feelings to come forward. Continue weeping, whenever you feel the need.
After this, you can start finding new meaning in your life. What can you learn from what happened? Which friends have you left, whom you can talk to? Which dreams in life do you want to realize?
Don't be lazy. Solve problems, and plan for the future between the crying, this will move you towards the time when you can be happy again.
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