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reply Re: Overly Mother Sister , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 18 Sep 2004 22:46
plain Overly Mother Sister , ****** , 18 Sep 2004 04:02
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Overly Mother Sister
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Date: Sat, 18 Sep 2004 04:02:09 +0200
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Hi.
Im the oldest of four children, Im 23 and the other children range from 21 to 12. Everytime there is a problem I always try to fix it even if they dont ask. I also dont trust my sisters they are always getting into problems and lying. When i believe they are lying I go and find the truth and then confront them. However, my confrontations are never peacefull. I get emotional, start to scream and cry. I onced slapped my sister and then I felt guilty.

I want to know how to stop being so motherly or i even can. I know my siblings hate this about me they tell me, they tell there friends, and whoever knows me because then i find out. I makes me cry because they dont realize how it hurts me or my parents when they lie or say something mean.

I just wish there was a way I could be less motherly and more sisterly. They (siblings) tell me i never side with them. I always getting them in trouble with my parents. I just...I dont know...

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Re: Overly Mother Sister (Reply to: 33788 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Sat, 18 Sep 2004 22:46:02 +0200
Language: Swedish , English

 


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Is it not reasonable for a 23-year old to move away from home? If you do, your sisters will have to take responsibility for their lives. Perhaps will your relationship improve as well if you are not always there.




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