My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months and were having sex. Well one night after a night of drinking we started having sex and he called me kritrisha. I heard it once and i just thought i was really drunk and then he said it again. He didn't make a face like he didnt mean to say it, he said it like it was my name. SO when I heard it the second time I got up and asked him why he said that he said he didn't know. I asked him if he knew someone whos named sounded like "kir" and he said yea shes married. So then I thought he was cheating. And he said it again when I got upset. I was leaving his apartment and as I was leaving he grabbed my hand and said it again. He said it was his friends ex girlfriend and he has never hugged her kissed her anything. So I asked his friend about he and he said pretty much the same thing. So I forgave him. Well another night he came to get me at a bar cause I was too drunk to drive home and he was sober and by the time we got home I was pretty much sober. Well we were having sex and he said "kri". And I said were you gonna do that again and he said no. He said he was going to say his name cause he didnt wanna "go" yet. Well we stoppped having sex cause it kind of ruined it. And the next night I was talking to his friend and his friend told me heas going to say kristinia or something again. I got pissed and told him I knew. He says he isnt cheating and he really doesnt have time to cheat and we hang out a lot and no girls call his cell phone and he doesnt have a house phone. He says the only reason he can think of is military stress life. So I was wondering if someone knows why this is happening. If he isnt cheating then what is going on. Please get back to me. Thanks
It is difficult to know what is happening inside your boyfriends head when he says the wrong name. The most common occurrence is that someone mistakenly uses the name of an old lover, not because one is still in love with this person, but because the mind works in this way. The mind sometimes try to find old information for new situations. One possibility is that your boyfriend is fascinated about the name and wants to use it in erotic situations. This may have nothing to do with having a relationship with this woman called Kritrisha, but because the name itself turns him on.
Continue to ask him and maybe he will eventually come up with the answer. But don’t ask in an accusing way. Ask friendly and inquisitively because you want to solve the riddle with the name. You can joke with him by calling him Adrian when he calls you Kritrisha.
Your use of alcohol seems pretty serious and can lead to alcoholism. You should consider methods of prevention so that you don’t fall into that sad condition.
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