Needing to be the man I really am

I need to be who I really am so I can live a normal, healthy, mentally stable life, but I do not know where to begin looking for a doctor or psychiatrist in Buffalo,NY for this. I have not been able to face society since 2001 and I would really love to be a part of society again without all this emotional abuse I get because of my need to be rid of this female body that doesn't fit who I am.

Do you mean that you have a man's soul trapped in a woman's body? It is possible to go through a sex change by undergoing hormonal treatment and surgery. Go to a doctor and ask him if he knows of someone who can do that in the USA.