Dear Sir/Mam:
Hi,i'm 22 years old( female) ,it's been 3.5 years that i've been friend to one of my class mates at university,well it was love at first sight when we met,and we were so much in love and happy,and we wanted to get married,but because we were 18 then,we decided to wait until we finish our school,but recently it seems that our relationship is not the same as it was before,i mean every time i see him ,not even i don't get happy,i start making fun of him for example i remind him that he's getting bold. and i laugh when he gets hurt, besides my family insists that we should get married pretty soon,i really don't know if i should end this relationship or try to sortout our problems(although i've tried to sort it myself),by the way,he still loves me alot atleast more than i do.
please give me some advice,
thankyou.
You seem much too uncertain to decide to marry him now. That he loves you, and that your family wants you to marry, are not sufficient reasons. You must want to marry him, too. Tell him how you feel. Maybe he can give you a time for consideration, so that you get time to find out what you really want.
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