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really need help.

I've been with my husband over nine years and I though that our relationship was fine until two weeks ago. We got marry to young and we dicided not have space for each other meaning that if I go out with my friends he will have to come with me and the same with him(this was something that he wanted for both of us up to now). We had a baby and unfortunatelly he died from a heart surgury when he was two, it has been over six year since he died. We moved to new appartment and I thought our relationship was ok. I think is was my fault because I don't have the disire to have sex and I think thats when he started thinking that I didn't care about him but he never told me anything of how he felt. He start a new job as a chef and don't see each other that much he works from 11AM to 12PM Tuesday and Wednesday and Thursday - Sunday from 9AM to 1AM. My working hours are from 8AM to 4:30PM Monday - Friday. He told me he need his space meaning he wants to do everything his friends do after work and wants me to do what I want in life but now I don't have any friends to go out with and I don't know what to do. He doesn't want me to touch him or have sex. Please advise I need serious help.

Elvira