I can confidently say, I am an attractive woman. My husband and I had a pretty good sex life in the beginning of our relationship...but of course, who doesn't. I always knew he masturbated in the morning, but didn't think anything of it, cause we were still very sexually active. Once we found out I was pregnant almost over 2 years ago(my daughter is 16.5 months old now) we did not have sex for over a YEAR! I understood that being pregnant, some men found it weird, so I respected that....but come on...we still didn't AFTER(And I actually lost more weight and looked even better AFTER being pregnant)! We probably have had sex maybe a total of 8 times in the last 2 years!! I KNOW he still masturbates every morning, as he is not shy about it. When I want to talk about our non existent sex life, he makes me feel like I am pressuring him, so therefore it prolongs us having sex even longer. It's like I am being punished for wanting to discuss it with him. Every morning, when he is in the shower, I cringe, just knowing what he is doing in there...I feel like he is cheating on me. Someone please help me understand this or better yet, help me figure out a way of going about talking to him about this issue, without hurting his feelings. No one in their right mind, can say this is NORMAL!!! I am 5'3", 127 lbs, curvy and athletic, I could go on...I am NOT saying this to get attention, just trying to figure out, WHY of alllll PEOPLE, MY husband is not wanting to have sex with ME, but rather his HAND! I really hope I can get some advice here....thanks!
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