my family and I are have booked a holiday to my hometown.Before we booked it I asked my sister if she was going with her family and she said no.But now she called and said that they are thinking of going. You see, her partner is an alcoholic and we had experienced before, going home together and it was a disastrous. Now my husband doesn't want to go. I want to go for the children's sake and I want to see my parents. It's been four years since I was home.And we already gave a deposit which I understand non-refundable. Should I stay Or should I go? Help!