im 33 years old. all my life i tried to please my father thinking he was the best man around, then 2 weeks ago i found out he has sexually abused my 2 aunts. i want to confront him (there's no doubt in my mind that its true hind sight being 20/20.) but i keep telling myself that it's up to my aunts to confront him. right now im pretending im strong and that i can handle it but i know i cant anymore. there's alot of help for the abused or familly of the abuse but i cant find any help or books or any info on how im supposed to live with it. right now im stuck not knowing if i should love or hate my dad and thats what hurts the most. i always struggled to make him proud of me and now i just dont care what he thinks anymore. please send me some information. help me know im normal.
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