Unfriendly behaviour

l am very unfriendly due to how hostile my relatives treated me when l was young. l see people as enemies and finds it difficult to be nice to people . l do not forgive people easily when they offend me. and l see negative things in what ever people do. please help me. l want to be a friendly and lovely person. thank you. l am mustily quite because l fear people will take advantage of me. and treat me badly.

Remember that you want to be a friendly and lovely person. Try to live up to your own expectations. Forgive yourself when you do not succeed and try again.

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Letter from a reader: Your main problem is Expectation....you are Expecting from others......
Try to Forgive Everyone......Even if they Offend ur heart at Highest Degree...
Begin to Forgive Every one......Even if they don't forgive u and Love you......you Try to Forgive Them.....

do not think you can change them......it will not happen.......but one thing is Possible..........you can change man....... Be the Cahange you want to see..
Love Every one Who Hurted you....Love them All ......

Do you know what is a Real Love????

Love is to "Give--Give--Give--Give..Do not Expect in Return,that they will Love you.....but you Love them.."

Do you know what is Lust???

Lust is to "Take--Take--Take...No Reason..No Logic...you want more....it will never satisfy you..."

so Love Every One Who Hurted You man....

do you know Why Love Hurts???

Love Hurts not Because You are not Loved By others....But love Hurts only Because if u Stop Giving Love to others....

So....Try to..

1.Love Everyone you meet in your Life....
2.Forgive Everyone who Hurted you......
3.Help Everyone with Out partiality.....

This is my advice man........ur Wish to Heed....... This is my opinion and ask others opinions Too.....

if u want further info... mail me: rahman_cam@yahoo.com
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