I've been married for twenty one years. I found out about a month ago that my husband has had a "female friend" for the last year. He says that the friendship was strictly that "just friends". They had discussions about getting together for sex but it never happened. I want to work on our marriage but I don't think I believe what he has told me about his friendship. He's been very, very good to me over the years. There aren't too many things that I ever wanted that he didn't make sure that I had. I'm not necessarily speaking of monetary gifts or things that he purchased. He's always been very good at making me feel secure in every since of the word. I'm an emotional wreck right now and would love some advice. My question is has anyone of you ever experienced a cheating husband and stayed with him?