orgasm problem

hi, i'l been with my boyfriend for a while now, he my second partner so far. Am finding it very hard to orgasm. I don't know what it feel like or what it look like? my boyfriend think there is something wrong with him. we have try everything from making love to candles lights. am always in the mood, i don't know what is wrong! is an orgasm look milky or waterly, we try so many time, and most time i just feel that i wnat to come but i end up going to the toliet for a piss and now am worry that next time i feel that am about to come, am going to piss on him! can you please help me with my orgasm problem!

Candles light is nice, but does not help you to reach an orgasm. Use the toilet just before you have sex. Learn how to reach an orgasm by yourself before you can teach your boyfriend. Caress your clitoris and think sexually arousing thoughts at the same time. Use lubricating gel from the pharmacy, if needed.