I started to date a guy that I thought was normal. He is very very successful; however I found out later when he reveled to me that likes to be very submissive, He told me that he is a momma’s boy and like pleasuring women, but not by penetration, because he has an impotent problem. He told me he likes it when he is humiliated like if I at dinner with friends and I tell them in front of him how he can't get it up. He said he wants to be my little slave boy, likes taking me shopping and taking care of me. What I find even more bizarre is that he try's to encourage me to be with other guys, but told me how he would like to watch or even be in the closet. From what I gathered from him is that he wants to fantasize that I'm like his mom. I told him after he told me this at dinner that I could no longer see him. This is not normal is it? And what causes someone to want that or even be like that.