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reply ** Re: Relationship problem , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 19 Apr 2007 18:47
sad Relationship problem , ****** , 19 Apr 2007 13:59
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Relationship problem
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Date: Thu, 19 Apr 2007 13:59:51 +0200
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Almost every week I have arguments with my girlfriend over small issues. I start blaming her for something she had not done or something I misunderstood or for her small mistakes. She ends up crying and feeling miserable. After that I realize I shouldn’t have behaved that way. I make up with her and commit myself not to repeat it anymore. She endures everything I say and does not complain afterwards. But after a week the same thing happens again over some other small issue. I promised her to correct myself several times but no use. It's like I go blind and cannot think properly. We both are happy with each other but these times come as a curse ruining her life and leaving me with grief and regret.
Please I want a permanent solution for this.
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** Re: Relationship problem (Reply to: 99402 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Thu, 19 Apr 2007 18:47:50 +0200
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Instead of complaining and blaming, you can ask your girlfriend in a friendly way to give you what you want from her. Instead of "why have you not done this", you can ask: "would you like to do this".

Read more about conflict resolution.

Read about getting your way.




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