Can men really change? I mean if you have been dating for almost 6 years and your immediate wants and needs can't be met do you still keep hope alive or are there some questions that need to be answered out of respect? Once you receive the answers/excuses, do you accept them and keep hope alive or do you further investigate to find a quicker solution to get ridding of all this doubt that has developed in you? I mean some things like keeping an adequately paying job, working towards keeping one, or marrying someone you proposed to a while ago, are those things to be sacrificed?(woman's needs) If so, for what reason/s? How does the spouse with these needs cope from day to day? On the other hand the needs of the one sacrificing are cleaning more often and buying you various things when your money runs low(man's). This is an introduction. Further to come, a wanted child/sibling.