I have never had an orgasm, and I really want to have one. Ive had a mini-orgasm, but they're not that strong, and don't last longer than a few seconds. Ive tried stimulating my clit, but it never works all that well. I want a REAL orgasm. How can i have one?
Orgasm lasts on an average eight seconds for men and about a minute for women. Are you sure you do have any orgasm, perhaps you expectations are too high?
It is usually best to learn to have an orgasm by masturbation. The knowledge learned can then be applied also to sex with a partner.
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