Hey, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it to sound that way.
It just seemed like you were lumping in those who are lied to/duped/fooled into getting involved with someone who's married with those who knowingly go into it. It hurts a lot to think you are involved with someone single that it may be going somewhere with and then to find out he is committed elsewhere and lying to everyone around him. It's just not the same thing as someone who knows damn well they are having an affair with a married man.
I apologize. Didn't mean to get cranky with you -- I'm just upset about the situation.