Re: im in love with a married man

Hi I have read all the posts with great interest.
I have just split with my MM of 8 years. we have had a few periods of not communicating in the past and always resumed contact, but this time it is different.
He never meets me in the evenings like he used to, but can only manage mornings and afternoons He has been phoning but I have been reluctant to meet with him and he has sensed that something is up. I decided that I needed to talk about things but when I suggested meeting over the phone he backed right away and hasn't called since.
He has however started going to the same places that I visit, like a local internet cafe and deliberately sitting at the computer next to me. In the old days we would have just gone back to my house but I don't suggest that and I don't hang around when he sits beside me. Then he says that he will call "soon" but he doesn't. If it's over why would he say he is going to phone. I think he is just playing with me because I have taken away his entertainment.
Anyone got any ideas on what he is playing at. He might be making me wait so that I will really miss him and then he hopes to resume on HIS terms. He might be confused as to what he wants but he should be working onhis marriage and not flirting with me in cafes.
Any ideas?