Re: im in love with a married man

Hi all,

I have read all the stroies here, the situation of felling love with a married man is the hardest one,
but the problem is that , we dont know about the future, what will happen? I had this problem ,
loved him, is kids and respect the woman, but the problem is that, WHAT IS THE FUTURE?
you nice girl who are fell in love with married man.... think and imagine about the future!
how many of us have this chance to live with our only love?! is he really get divorce? if he decided to get divorce what is the reaction of the wife and kids...?! they want to tell him all the time that he has left them becasue he has felt in love with some one else?!
it is very hard for me,,,, and i have many tears! but i decided to stay in a normal relationship with him,
and just have the feeling of his LOVE in my heart! but not in a way that he cheat his wife,
becasue he will get use to it and find it intresting and then may may this happend to me..
alreasy he has told many lies to the wife becasue he wanted to keep our relationship hidden...
which is not good for him!!!
so i got the best way is that i have less contact with him.... just be a nice girl for him if he called me , send me email and smsed me .. or if we met... becasue ACTUALLY I LOVE HIM! THE truth is that we love eacother!... but we are not for eachother becasue STILL he is belong to some one elese...
and i beleive if he REALLY LOVE ME... he will start thinking about the way to HAVE me legally!...
the process of divorce is along .... he should first be ready for it then make his decision then tell her and
after many arguments go to file for divorce... so he should be free and think deeply with him self
HOW MUCH HE LOVES YOU?! if he loves you surely he will act for you!... may takes 1-2-3 or 5 years
but is better that in this duration he hasent cheat him, and he had enough time to think and decide..
and also we have time along having their love in our heart to see MAY we met another SOUL MATE of us...!! true love scare! and we are afraid if we leave him... never have this chance to meet any guy who love him....!! even it is true... even just this married guy is my love.... i think he should have this ability to PROTECT ME AND ACT FOR ME! if he cant... so how he can undrestand my feeling toward him?
i mean if our love is true and real love so his love should be the same! we wait for them and then should act for us!!!
but in a CORRECT WAY! it is very better that he get dicorce becasue of another reason not becasue HE HAS FEL IN LOVE WITH YOU! then all the friends, family his kids will talk about about you...
and ruin your NICE LOVE LIFE!!!
be paitant...if god has give us this ability to feel the TRUE love So we should be capable women..
should be strong!!!! should have all the charactors of a woman who can feel the TRUE LOVE!!!
you know that all the people cant feel what is love!!!

wish all the best for all of us