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KOM2002 (question)  Can't stop obsessing over ex-girlfriend

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reply ** Re: Can't stop obsessing over ex-girlfriend , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92 , 15 Dec 2006 07:54
question Can't stop obsessing over ex-girlfriend , ****** , 15 Dec 2006 00:47
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Can't stop obsessing over ex-girlfriend
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Date: Fri, 15 Dec 2006 00:47:27 +0100
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Twice in my life now I have become very close to a woman in a short period of time. The first woman was only with me a couple of months, the other was six months. When they both broke up with me I couldn't let it go. I called them nonstop for days. I always worried where there were, if they thought about me, if they were with someone else. The first was married and went back to her husband. I couldn't let her go, Ilost 70lbs and slept 12 hours a day. I had to stop calling her because of her husband and I never saw her again. The girl that just broke up with me lives across the street. She is single with children. I can't stop calling, texting, or emailing. I stare at her house all day and night. I can't stop wondering where she is right now or with who. Its been less thana week and i've lost 10lbs, food has no appeal to me. What is my problem? Is it an obsession disorder? How do I get help?
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** Re: Can't stop obsessing over ex-girlfriend (Reply to: 89720 from ****** )
From: Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
Date: Fri, 15 Dec 2006 07:54:58 +0100
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It is very hard to loose one's love. But not respecting the woman's wish is illegal. Stop persecuting them and grieve instead. When grief is over, I hope you can find another woman, and treat her so good that she stays with you. Be sensitive to her wishes and needs.

Read more about grief.




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