At my age, I should know better than to be a part of this group, but sometimes love comes as a surprise. We have been business friends for a few years then one day realized that we are in love. I know nothing about his marriage but I don't think it is unhappy. We see each other when possible; phone, and email everyday, and fantasize how we'd like it to be. We treasure our friendship so the physical part will end soon so that we may keep the loving friendship. He'll stay married, we'll stay friends and I'll eventually have a love relationship, with a single man, because I now know that I want that in my life. He reminded me how wonderful it is to love and be loved by a wonderful man - I'm sure he's not the only one out there!!!!