I know the typical scenario... that he's just using me to get his needs met ect, but what if that's not the case? Couldn't it be possible for someone to make a mistake, to marry the wrong person? We hadn't met each other when he got married. I know I was engaged and almost made the mistake of marrying another guy. Isn't it possible that true love can come along late? He was so depressed, I hadn't heard him laugh in months, and now since we've been romantic friends (non-physical) he's been smiling, laughing, and both of us our enjoying life more. I do have certain moral qualms about taking things to the next level, but doesn't love conquer all?