I became attracted to a married man working for the same company as I before I got married to my husband. The feelings were mutual. We continued our friendship after I got married because we believed that we could control our feelings and did not want to lose the friendship.
The frienship continued for almost a year and our feelings for each other grew. He said he loved me, but there was never anything physical or any talk of us leaving our spouses. I love my husband and he loves his two children. The relationship ended when his wife found out and she told my husband. His wife and I exchanged heated words and he told me he didn't want to have anything further to do with me.
It has been almost a year since then. He has never made any effort to talk to me, even though we see each other regularly. He does not speak to me at all. In fact he acts as if we never knew each other. It pains me that he acts this way. I go out of my way to see him, to see if he'll speak to me and he never does. I have not gotten over him. What should I do? Confront him or forget that it happened?