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reply Re: I love my husband, but I'm not in love with him , Gunborg Palme - Leg psykolog - Leg psykoterapeut - Telefon 08-664 60 92
plain I love my husband, but I'm not in love with him , ****** , 20 Oct 2005 00:19
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I love my husband, but I'm not in love with him
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Date: Thu, 20 Oct 2005 00:19:24 +0200
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I just turned 22 years old last month and tomorrow is the one year anniversary of my marriage. Less than a week ago my best friend in the whole world (a guy) told me that he has feelings, and proceeded to tell me that he doesn't think my husband and I are right for each other, that we don't "fit" and that he doesn't like the way my husband treats me sometimes. Besides being in complete and utter shock, the things my best friend had to say about mine and my husband's relationship struck a chord in me. Thoughts and doubts I've had for a long time that I tried to ignore were brought into full focus, and I'm at such a loss as to how to handle the situation. I know that I love my husband, but I also don't think that I'm in love with him, which to me makes a huge difference. I regret getting married so young, and I'm starting to think that I made a very big mistake. But not only do I not want to hurt my husband, who is head over heels in love with me, I feel that I would be letting down my parents, who supported me and helped us out through some hard financial times, despite the fact that they didn't necessarily agree with our decision to get married. I feel like I would be disappointing them if I were to admit that I made a mistake and try to fix it. I'm also scared that they might be mad at me after everything they've done for my husband and myself, like it was all a waste or something. Please help!
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Talk to your parents about your thoughts and problems. Maybe they do not see it the way you think they do. Your husband probably needs that someone is in love with him. He might be able to get that from somebody else. But you do not know if your friend will stay with you after he has seduced you. The risk is, that you will end up lonely.




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