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Bullying brother and parents
Bullying brother and parents
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Date: Fri, 14 Oct 2005 20:36:38 +0200
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Please help me. My family members are all bullies. I somehow trusted my brother with deepest of my emotions and now he is using them to taken advantage of me and bullies me in social occassions. I never knew he was such a bastard from inside. He looks so caring and trustworthy person from inside and people admire him in my society for the things he does to help them. But i have realized that honestly he is just fooling others to may be use them at some times or satisfy his selfish needs. My father has been the same and my brother is trying to idealize my father. They also have traits of Narcissism as they lack empathy towards others and are so much occupied with their own needs ignoring at times what others need in relationship with them. Please, how do i somehow save from this Narcissistic family? I am not strong enough and can't even support myself as i am just 24. I have already moved away from them and reduced contact but their thoughts keep haunting me of something bad to happen in my life. I am not able to get rid of my fears of having been in relationship with these people. I have started taking counselling but i am not sure i can trust my counsellor completely.
Find another counsellor whom you trust. If you come from a dysfunctional family, you need to replace your family members with friends who are good for you. it is a great disadvantage to be brought up in a family like yours. The best thing you can do is to study and get a job, so you can support yourself and not be dependent on your narcissistic family.
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