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Jealousy/Feeling left out
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Date: Mon, 4 Jul 2005 22:49:25 +0200
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Hello,
I have had this type of problem for maybe a year now. I don't know why, but I get very jealous when my boyfriend tells me he has plans to go out with his group of friends. He always sees them every Saturday night, and Fridays as well. My group of friends and I rarely ever get a chance to hang out, and it bothers me so much because it seems as though I am the only one who cares that we do not see each other. Whenever my boyfriend mentions he will go to a party or something of the sort with his friends, I feel anxiety and I start getting nervous. I start comparing in my mind the amount of times my friends and I hang out to the amount of times he and his friends do. I hate feeling this way, and whenever my friends and I actually do get a chance to hang out, I feel it necessary to tell my boyfriend about it so that he can feel the jealousy I do. I also am jealous that he has a larger group of friends to be with than I do. I also feel left out alot between my best friend Freddy and Welton. Freddy considers both Welton and I his best friends, but he spends alot more time with Welton than he does with me. Welton and I are also very close friends, but I do not think he considers me a best friend. I do not know if I dont have this connection with Freddy as well as he and Welton does for the simple fact that I am a girl and they are guys. They talk to each other on the phone all the time, and they also hang out together without me. It really bothers me when I hear about it and I end up thinking that I'm a boring person, and that's why they dont hang out with me as much. I am also always the person who has to plan for my group of friends to get together, and I truly feel that if it weren't for me to constantly try to see them, we would not be in contact anymore. How can I stop feeling this way, and more importantly, what is making me feel like this? Does this happen to a lot of other people?

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