A few months ago I sat down at my computer to check my email. As it so happens, I use hotmail, and as I started to type "www.hot" I noticed that there was another site beginning with "hot" in my Internet history that Internet Explorer was so generously offering to return me to. I checked my Internet history, and found out that my boyfriend of over 2 and a half years had been using my computer on a daily basis for a few weeks to search for porn and information on his ex-girlfriend. I questioned him about this, he said it was just something stupid he did, that he was totally over her and just wanted to see what she was up to. He swore he didn't want to contact her. A few weeks later he accidentally forwarded a mass email to both her and I. Again, I confronted him, and he said that he hadn't contacted her previuosly, and just thought the mass email was good advice for everyone. I blew up, and asked him to please not use my computer again, that if he was going to lie to me I was not going to make my resources available.
As a very brief note, the only time she came up in conversation was an argument about a year ago in which he claimed he almost married her, and that maybe he wasn't ready for our relationship to begin when it did.
Well, it's been eating me alive, and he left his laptop on today when he left. I checked his Internet history, and sure enough everyday he types her name at least once into Google. If I ask him about it he's going to say he just wants to see what she's up to (they're both musicians, and very competitive at that). HELP!!! I don't know what to think, much less what to say to him.
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29 Jun 2005 10:42
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