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Date: Thu, 16 Jun 2005 03:40:29 +0200
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hi i have been involved with a man for four yrs and i moved in with him in his home where him and his wife once lived, im not too upset of that but only upset of the fact that he is not legally divorced and this is an issue to me, i feel like i am with him just waisting time and energy he is 52 and i am 37, that was his second marriage, and i feel insecure because of the fact that he keeps prolonging his divorce and he didnt even file yet, he does everything else but do this and its making me feel used . he tells me he loves me but i told him in the begginning of our relationship that i wanted to be more settled and he made promises to me that someday he wouldnt mind getting married again soon after his divorce well i am being patient but how much more patients should i have when he isnt even filing for it,? i know what you ;s will tell me, did i ever ask him why? well yes i told ask him why???? he tells me that his wife will want half of the house marital property from when she lived in the house and he is afraid to lose his home, ok but you wont know until you go to court, he lied to me about the both of their names on the deed of the home and told me his name was on it solely that was a lie, what do i do in this situation? so many people tell me to move out and move on that it sounds like he is using me and still may want her...
Yes, why don't you move out for a while. That will give you a chance to find out, if he will fight to get you back or not.
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