I have been in a relationship for 2.5 yrs. I have wanted to get out for a long time, but feel guilty, as this girl has a history of drug abuse, and I am worried that if i leave her, she will go back to drugs and they will eventually kill her. I could never live with myself if that happened. Please help.
thank you kindly.
Help her to grow and to stand on her own two feet. She can perhaps start studying and get new friends. If you end the relation swiftly and brutally there is a risk that she will start using drugs again. But if you make it a process where she starts to develop thereby making you more dispensable she might tire of you and leave you for a man who gives her love. Take the role of a friend. That way you can be there for her even in the future when she might need some support.