i was wondering if i can get any help at all... im in a relationship at the moment, we are both 18 yrs old, but the problem is. When i first started going with her she still had strong feelings for another guy. Its 3 months past and i still feel she has the same feelings, the way she looks at him and acts around him. Now everything she does im so paranoid that shes lying behind my back and still likes him, even if she calls a friend when im not with her i freak out and think that shes calling this person. I really like her and dont want to lose her but i feel everything she does is a lie. I really need help in getting rid of my paranoya so we can have a strong trusting relationship...
I would say that it is your paranoia rather than her feelings that is the real problem. Even if one does have a boyfriend on is allowed to like other people in one's surrounding. She has chosen you, not him. Your girlfriend need to be able to use the phone without you getting suspicious. In the long run, no one will put up with a jealous partner. Is it possible for you to start psychotherapy to come to terms with your feelings of uncertainty and insecurity?
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