My husband says he is not sure he wants to continue our marriage. He is unsure he still feels the same way for me as when we got married. How do I help make his decision? I still love him very much so and so not want this to be the end of our marriage. He knows this and is willing to seek help but I have read that only 20% of marriages still survive after counseling, and if he is unsure how will I know if he is putting in 100% into helping us through this? We have four small children (7,5,4,1) and just bought a new home, I don't want to see any of this go to waste. Please help I feel I am running out of time to mend this already bad situation. I have just been trying to be there for him but it is eating me alive.