Dear Sir/Mam:
Hi,i'm 22 years old( female) ,it's been 3.5 years that i've been friend to one of my class mates at university,well it was love at first sight when we met,and we were so much in love and happy,and we wanted to get married,but because we were 18 then,we decided to wait until we finish our school,but recently it seems that our relationship is not the same as it was before,i mean every time i see him ,not even i don't get happy,i start making fun of him for example i remind him that he's getting bold. and i laugh when he gets hurt, besides my family insists that we should get married pretty soon,i really don't know if i should end this relationship or try to sortout our problems(although i've tried to sort it myself),by the way,he still loves me alot atleast more than i do.
please give me some advice,
thankyou.
Du verkar alldeles för tveksam till ett äktenskap för att du ska kunna gifta dig med honom nu. Att han älskar dig och att din familj vill att du ska gifta dig är inte tillräckliga skäl. Du måste vilja gifta dig också. Berätta för honom hur du känner. Kanske vill han ge dig betänketid, så att du får tid att pröva vad du verkligen vill.
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