Hello..I'm 28 y/o and my wife is 24. We also have a 7 month old, son. My wife and I have had sex approximately 12 times in 1yr and 8 months. She says that she was sexually abused as a child along with rape at 17 when a guy took advantage of her while she was asleep. She has the major mood swings and has talked about suicide twice. She's a great mother but scores about a 1 on the wife scale. She admits to being selfish and she lets it show all the time. She doesn't want to have sex and says that she doesn't know why and will not seek any help. I've had a bad experience with my ex-wife and seeing my other 2 boys in which I haven't seen in about 2 years and I don't want that to happen again.My wife and I have had sex 3 times this year along with 4 deep kisses. I don't understand why she is so "cut off" from this relationship. She does have a past history of being engaged x4 w/in a period of about 4 years with her ending those relationships. Is there any hope that this marriage can be salvaged? I'm tired of being miserable but I don't want to lose my son or subject him to the life of having divorced parents. -concerned